Honesty Hour!

Just kidding, more like honesty all the time. Everyone always says they're sick of people who are "fake", but I think it's more than that. I'm sick of people who can't sit down like adults and express why they're upset. Oh, I sarcastically called you a bitch and you were actually upset by it? How about instead of telling everyone and their mother that you're upset, you just kindly let me know and I'll make sure not to do it again.

I won't yell at you.

I won't bitch about you.

I might not understand since my sense of humor is different, but that does NOT mean I won't respect you.

I don't think this is a difficult thing to understand.

Also, to clarify, I made this scenario up, I'm not bitching about specific people right now, but things like this have definitely happened in the past.

I think it's about time we all grew the fuck up and learned how to talk to each other. I don't think it should be that big of a deal. and DO NOT text me to tell me you're upset. If you can't grow up enough to sit down and talk to me, you're probably not even old enough to have a phone.

Also, if we've recently had some sort of fight/argument and haven't made up yet, please DO NOT just go around pretending like everything is okay and nothing happened. This honestly pisses me off way fucking more than if you were gonna be an asshole to me the entire time I was near you. Or we could just sit down and both admit we both fucked up.

We all need to start learning how to tell it like it is. I'm so sick of the "does this look bad on me?" "NO GIRL! YOU LOOK GREAT!!". No. If I look like a fucking whale, please tell me. I'd rather it be JUST YOU who knows rather than everyone at the fucking party we're going to (I say the party because that's the only place I'd dress decent enough to have to ask someone's opinion of what I'm wearing. No shame in my lazy game). Point being, tell me if I fucking look gross.

My best friend will tell me exactly how it is. If I'm being a bitch, I fucking know it. If my outfit looks bad, I knew before it was even on my fucking body. And is it annoying sometimes? Yeah, but not because of her. I 1,000% appreciate the honesty because I know if she's saying I look good I ACTUALLY look good and don't have to play some sort of fucking guessing game. (It's just annoying when I can't find anything to wear. Or when she tells me I'm being a bitch and I think she's being a bitch and we have to not talk for like 5 minutes so that we can deal with one another again. It's a great system though). But have I ever ACTUALLY gotten mad at her for telling me the truth? Not that I can think of!! (Footnote: don't fucking tell me like 3 months later. This actually happened to me once where I had a friend say something along the lines of "Oh, yeah...remember how you wore your hair that one time like 3 months ago? Yeah it looked awful and me and so and so talked about it and agreed...just fucking tell me that day dude!! I woulda put that shit up!!).

Anyways, a message to not just my fellow ladies, but to everyone, BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER